Hey mate, welcome back :-)
1. about the laws/rules in this country, well its not easy.. its way more diffficult than in poland, thats for sure, so:
- coilovers - no problem here
- wider wheels - no problem
- wider tires - could be a problem, if you dont have the size in your vehicle registration card, but that depends on what kind of cop you get caught by, he doesnt even have to notice that, or the other kind, which will make a fucking rigorous test of your whole vehicle down to high vis jacket and first aid kit.
- engine swap - absolutely impossible to get legalized here. they are being done, but in E46 for example if you swap M54B22 for M54B30 there is almost no way of knowing you actually have a swap..
- brake swap - shouldnt be any issue
2. yeah, we import cars all the time, there are even companies that are doing it, from all over the europe, even usa. that is possible. i have a buddy who imported few rare cars from japan too
3. you actually dont have to ask any of these questions, if you are really running the car on polish plates, you can give the cops a big middle finger and drive what is actually legal in your country with your laws. i dont think they can take your plates for having a modified car, only thing i think they can do is maybe tow it away, and return it to your country, like they did multiple times in germany, when the guys from UK with their cars went to worthersee through germany, and many of them got caught on border checks, with german cops especially aiming on such cars, and they were left without the cars

but i dont think any cop would go through that..